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A small harvest

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From reading my blog it clear that I had lots of problems with my patio guarden. So much so that in the last two years I have been unable to harvest anything. From climate change effective planting time to a infestation of green caterpillars.

Well, finley some good news. I am finally harvesting some preppers and soon some chary tomatoes. With a few other plants growing good. And I can tell you that working so hard to get something to grow makes it so that the vegetables I eat from my own garden taste that much better.

We got them.

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We can now breathe a sigh of relief. One of the terrorist is dead and one has been captured alive. At lest for now as that can change. Although many would like to see him dead. I prefer him to be alive. I want him to sit in prison for a long time and regret what he has done. Not to mention that I want to find out if he was working with anyone else.

Unfortunately now that we know they are Muslim. Many of my fellow Christian are going to go into overdrive to paint all Muslims in the same light as the Boston bombers. Yet, if it had been a Christian, then they would say that not all Christians are like that and not to crucify all Christians because of the act of a few.

Anyway – At lest we got the guys.

He Asked for More

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Yesterday. I had been taking care of my so why Luz was volunteering at a daycare center for children of parents who are homeless or have other issues. I had been feeding Elijah, who was sitting on my leg. As I was feeding him, I asked, “Do you want more?” And Elijah Said in sign language, “more” to me. That was so cool. He even did it a few more times after that.

He has not yet said anything other then baby babble like, “mamamama” and “dadadada.” And does not seem to associate his baby babble with anything. So when he says, “mamamama” He not applying it to mom. However, clearly, he has associated the sign language word for “more” to mean he wants more.

A Sexual Fetish that Couples do that Involves Children.

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Did you know there is a sexual fetish that both men and women partake in that involves children? And I am not talking about pedophiles. However, children are still involved. Now you may ask at this point. What kind of sexual fetish is there that involves children, yet not pedophiles? And that would be a good question.

What we are talking about is a sexual fetish normally (but not always) within an already taboo sexual fetish called cuckolding. Basically, the cockolding fetish is where a husband is faithful to his wife but the wife can continue seeing other men.

Often the husband, known as the cuck. Will help set up the dates. He may watch and even participate in some disagree in the sex act. Acting as a fluffier to the bull/alpha (the male who will have sex with his wife). He may, as odd as this sounds, clean up what the bull left behind after he has finished. The big turn-on for them in this fetish is that the husband is humiliated by this.

Now if they are all informed, consenting adults. Then what they do behind closed doors is none of my business. Period. End of the story. However, within this already taboo sexual fetish is something that is just wrong as it involves a child.

The big turn-on for them is to humiliate the husband by allowing the bull to impregnate the husband’s wife. Oh, but what turns them on does not just end there. See it continues after the child is born. They actually are getting sexual gratification from the husband’s humiliation of spending his time, money and energy in raising another man’s child. While the bull has no responsibility with the children.

Although the they are not physically attracted to the child as a pedophile would be. The child ultimately still becomes a source for their sexual gentrification. Which makes them, no better than a pedophile. And a quick glance just at the names and descriptions of the stories one site publishes on this. Would suggest pedophiles in the sense of attraction to children is a big part of this sexual fetish. With stories About underage sex, Mom and son sex, Father and daughter, bull with all the family members, etc….

So not only is this a fetish where people get sexual gratification from their children by some phycological means. It is one that actual pedophiles (as in physical attraction) gravitate towards. People need to be made aware this exists.

A Bad Choice

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The other day Luz and I took my son Elijah to the doctor as he was feeling sick. When two black women came around the corner signs some stupid song “I’m going to take your man, your man your man…” Something stupid like that. But I did not pay much attention to it or them. That was until they switched the song. I’m going to “I’m going to take your baby, your baby, your baby…”

That did get my attention. As I was holding my son while walking up to the doctor’s office. I was not sure if that was part of the dumb song or what. So I turned and looked. And they said, “What are you looking at bitch. You want me to take your baby?” So this was not part of their dumb song. It was a sign of dumb women. I was very tempted to hand my son to Luz and walk over to the women to teach them a lesson. However, I kept my composer and chose to do the right thing and ignore them and just inform security and let them deal with them.

This was very stupid thing the women had done. They may have thought they were just being funny, but they had been playing a dangerous game. And they are lucky that it was me, who has a lot of self-control and not someone who has less control.

Woman Drowns 9-Year-Old Son Over Small Penis

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I am not pulling you like with a sick joke. A woman in Indonesian really did drown her own nine-year-old son. The reason she gave for killing her own flesh and blood was that her son had a small penis. A penis she said, looked even smaller after she had her son circumcised.

At this point, you may be asking. Why would she kill her own child over having a small penis? Well, it was explained. Somehow, in her mind. She had rationalized that she would actually be doing the boy a favor. Believing, him having a small penis would mean that he would have a bleak future. So she took him to a bath tub. Drowned him. Took him out of the tub, dressed him. Then put him on the bed and walked into the police station and told them what she had done vary calmly.

Link to the story found here.

Unequal Reproductive Rights For Men

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If you have followed my blog for any time. You know I have taken a stand ageist forced penile reduction surgery. Better known as male circumcision. Pointing out the sexism with in it. How it is illegal to cut the genitals of a female, but not when it comes to the genitals of the male.

It is sad that we have still have sexism. No matter what the gender. It is wrong. As both male and females deserve equal rights. Society in general is better of when we treat each other as equals. However, we still have sexism and when it comes to males being a target of that sexism. It is often over looked Ironically, when many of us of the male gender stand up we are told to, “shut up. And be a man.” Or we are told that we are being anti-women (Can we say – “Misandry”). So today, I am going to talk about yet another form of sexism that is overlooked by many. And that is how men do not have equal reproductive rights.

In the united states, only women can legally decide if they would like to be a parent. If they feel they are not ready to be a mom, then they have many options available to them. They can have an abortion, or they can even give up their child to the state. Here where I live. A woman can legally abandoned her child within a given amount of time after the child’s birth. Giving up all responsibility to that child. They can have many reasons for not wanting to be a parent. It may affect their education, their climb on the corporate ladder, be a financial hardship, or they may simply not want to have children.

Simply put, a woman can cease her responsibility of providing for that child and not be held accountable for the child. However, when it comes to the male gender. We do not have such options unless the women also would like the same. If she choices to have the child. We are now stuck with her choice. What we want or how it may affect us, does not matter. At lest legally it does not. And if she choices to have that child. The biological father must provide for that child.

What we have is unequal reproductive rights. It is wrong… If we are going to allow the female gender to be able to ride themselves of all responsibility to a child. Then so too must that extend to the male gender.

Lack of Child Proofing Supplies sold locally.

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If you asked me before about childproofing a home I would have been vary ignorant. When I thought of child proofing I was thinking electrical sockets, cabinet locks. However, I have come to learn there is so much more to it.

Anything with a light, Elijah realizes it must have a button. Predictably, Elijah will find that button and will need to push it. With the televisions being a favorite of his. We will be watching something good, then here comes Elijah. Changing the channel, turning off. Even setting the TV to a language we don’t understand.

Elijah has even learned to move foot stools and chairs to clime up onto things. He even did that and turn off the computer.  And it just takes just a few moments of looking away for this to happen. By the time I finish putting butter on to bread. He will have opened up a door to another room and will be into something.

I just simply was not expecting some of the things I have encountered with him. So I had gone up to Toys-R-Us looking for more baby proofing products. However, they were limited. With only the most basic products. Some of which don’t work with the design of my place. Which was all disappointing to say the least.

So I had gone online. Surprisingly every thing I wanted and more is available. A guard to stop kids from pressing the televisions buttons. Stuff to child proof the computer. Even something that prevents the little lad from taking the dinning room chairs to use to get on top of things. Its all there.

The problem is that. I will be ordering the child proofing supplies from more then one website. Each will be requiring $20.00 shipping and handling for the things I require. So by the time I am done ordering about $200.00 worth of stuff. I now need to tack on a bit over $80.00 to get it to me. Something I would not need to do if local stores here stocked up on the things parents will need.

Heck, if I had seen such products in stores before Elijah was born. I would have known more about what to expect and what protection is out there. Yet, for whatever reason they don’t think we should go without.